So, someone just gave me this great technique through which you can learn what you might need, even if you didn't realize you needed it.
Go to google (or search engine of choice) and type your Name with the word "needs" after it.
Here is what I learned:
Missy needs another cocktail. (right on!)
Missy needs a home.
Missy needs Thai. (yum)
Even Missy needs a new look. (you think?)
Missy needs you. (awwww, so true...)
Missy needs... a patient, caring home with someone willing to put some time in to training her and building her confidence.
Missy needs a new family.
Missy needs a business partner
Missy needs a new hairdo
(those were some of the highlights)
Melissa, on the other hand ...
Melissa needs to take a break (so true!!)
Melissa needs to board the blob ship that is hovering overhead (ROFL!!!)
Melissa needs lots of guidance
Melissa needs to find a new agent
Melissa needs your prayers
Melissa needs inner peace
And, a favorite and true --
Melissa needs a bed in Mexico!!!
Interesting that this should pass my radar at a time when I have been exploring how to better express my needs and find ways to meet them or get them met by others. This seems to be a constant challenge for someone like me who naturally gives to everyone else's needs.
So, what do you need?